Making the World a Cleaner Place
Blanca is an indigenous woman who comes once a week to clean for me and Gary. When she first started working for us, I asked myself numerous times whether I really needed someone to help out in our apartment.
After all, it’s quite small and I can do it myself in less than half a day. Why concern myself with waiting for someone to show up, come on time, or clean the way I want it done? It’s so much easier to do it myself.
Except it isn’t. I am now working more hours per week than I have ever worked. And I’m not getting any younger! Her help is much appreciated. It makes my life simpler and I can spend more time doing what I like to do.
I also questioned whether cleaning was the best use of her time. I know she’s bright, a leader in her community. She is an outspoken, strong and talented woman. I’m convinced she can do a great many things competently. Was my hiring her as a maid keeping her from pursuing a higher potential, fulfilling her true destiny?
To assuage my guilt, I told myself that her working for us as a maid was only temporary. We could help her find more creative, higher-paying work, raise her standard of living, teach her new skills that would bring her more income. But right now, she needs to support herself and her five children since she is newly-divorced and not receiving any financial help from her ex-husband.
Then it occurred to me: Why didn’t I just ask her what she really wants to do? I sat down with her one day and did just that, thinking it was time to expand her financial horizons. I was sure she’d reveal some secret desire or hidden vocational aspiration.
Did she want to work in tourism, administration, catering? What? She’d taken a course in tourism and also loves to cook traditional Ecuadorian meals for expats.
So I was surprised when she lit up, smiled brightly and answered, “I want to clean more.” Right now, for her, happiness seems to be having more gringo houses and apartments to clean.
This was an unexpected revelation to me. But perhaps cleaning a gringo apartment is interesting and full of mystery. She probably wonders why we need so much stuff-electric mixers, toasters, waste disposals, salad crispers. What do we do with all these dishes, these interesting but useless knick-knacks? When can we possibly wear all these clothes and shoes? She has worn the same kind of costume since childhood, the same style and color shoes.
Blanca’s answer didn’t fit my ideas about her. But I respected what she wanted and found more houses for her to clean. That seemed to be enough to make her happy. It’s what she felt she had skills to accomplish.
As the months have gone by, Blanca has blossomed. She has taken on more and more of the responsibilities we have given her. She began to partly manage the units we rent in Primavera I. She does all the cleaning and some of the maintenance.
When the regular manager there failed to cut the grass week after week, she arranged for it to be done. She makes sure gas canisters are filled and occasionally fits in some catering.
Recently we hired her full-time in our office. With the passing of the new constitution, it has become more problematic to hire people on a part-time basis. The law requires that they receive social security. While many people are still operating that way, it’s very difficult for one person to live on the $1-$2 an hour that many are paid in Ecuador.
My vision for Blanca is shaping up after all. Just holding a space of positivity for another person has such a powerful effect upon their lives. It’s the best gift we can give–to focus on someone’s perfection instead of his or her inabilities and failings. And to view their humanness with humor and love.
Now Blanca is the liaison between our company and the indigenous. She speaks Spanish and Kichwa and attends our real estate interactions with local villages. And if anyone is in need of a good domestic engineer, call our office. We’ll send Blanca to clean up your world.
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